What Are You Searching for?

We all find ourselves searching, at one point or another. Whether for a partner in life, a better job, a way to get in better shape, or something as basic as more happiness in life. In fact, most of us spend a major portion of our life in search.

We search and we search. We look in books, and buy the latest expert advice promising to guide us to the answers. We watch Oprah Winfrey (certainly, she must know). If not then one of her guests, after all they have written a book. We go to the seminars, lectures, workshops, and buy the latest infomercial gadget, program, and miracle that will only take seven days.

When that has not worked, we watch The Secret, because that must be it! It must be a secret and that is why you do not have it yet. Still even after The Secret and all the advice, gizmos, gadgets and promises of the life you want--you still find yourself searching.

Searching and searching yet never finding the answer you need. You know it is out there. You are sure it is. As long as you keep looking, you will find it. After all you deserve to have a great relationship, earn money at a career you like, lose weight and find your happiness, don’t you?

What if you could find the answer, what would you do? I am sure that to find how to accomplish the results you want you would do just about anything, wouldn’t you?

You would. Wouldn’t you?

Of course, you would.

I am glad you agree. You would do what it takes to find the answer you have searched for with such investment. Since we agree, I am going to reveal the answer you have been searching for, right here, right now. However, I reveal it with the agreement that you will to do what it takes for this answer. You said you would. If not, read no further. You are willing to do what it takes? If you agree, then proceed to discover the answer to everything you want.

Caution Caution Caution

Proceed only if you want to create the life you want…

In order to be able to read the answer you will need a mirror. You don’t think the answer will be in plain sight, do you? If it were that simple, surely you would have found it already. On the other hand, maybe it has been in plain sight. You just missed it all these years.

Ok, take a good look in the mirror. Keep looking. Just stare straight into it. See the answer? You did not see it yet? Come on, take a good look, you cannot miss it.

Still not seeing it? You must have the mirror at the wrong angle. Try shifting it or take a step closer and really stare into that mirror. Now you see it, don’t you? If you are still confused, let me help you.

When you stare into the mirror what you see is yourself. What else is there? If you are really staring into the mirror, that is all you should see, just yourself, and there is the answer! You have searched and searched all your life. But the answer to everything you want is ---- YOU!

You don’t need an expert or a gizmo, a secret or a seminar to create the life you want. The power to create the life you want is in you and it has been there all this time. All you need to do is exercise your power to take action.

You want a relationship? Then work on making yourself the best you can. After all, don’t you want someone who is attracted to you when you are active and passionate about your life? So if you like tennis, play tennis. Go to the places and do the activities you want a person to be with you doing. Then take your power, and date. Take the great You out, find ways to date, you will find someone, and over time the relationship will develop.

That person in the mirror has the power to exercise, eat right and get in great shape.

Don’t like your job? Then get training, more education, update your resume and search for a new job. Tired of not having money? Examine how you spend it and make a decision to create more wealth in your life. Whatever it is you want, there is action you can take to create it. The power to change your life is you.

Now, since you agreed that if I would reveal this answer you will do what it takes, here’s where you live up to your end of the bargain.

That is what every successful person you see and envy knows, and does. They do not buy into shortcuts and secrets. They know the responsibility to create the life they want is with them—with the decisions and actions they take.

This is the answer to creating the life you want.

Now that you know the answer, it is up to you!

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How to improve your confidence by impersonating confident people?

Hi Guys

Here's a inner ATTITUDE builder (AKT) - make a small list (3-5) of people you feel are really confident- these maybe real people you know- people you have watched from the movies or read in books-

Now imagine one of these people taking your place for a day- now in as much detail as you can create a fantasy of that person living your life for that day-

How does that person deal with talking to new people? How does that person hold himself in a conflict situation? How does that person deal with others? How does he dress, dance, etc.

Once you have run through that few time (2-3) repeat it over only this still imagine you have stepped in side you hosts body, and you are looking through his eyes, feeling with his hands, talking with his words, and doing everything in he is doing-

Once you have done that 2-3 time- Run through the same situations again only you do it by yourself, yet have your confidence buddy walking a long side you and you let him lead and you just mimic him-

Once you practice this 3-5 times a day for 5-7 minutes at a time after a little while- a few days weeks, your brain will habituate the process and start to run this automatically- all you need to do from time to time create tougher and tougher situations to deal/cope with- and your will see a huge leap in your business.

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How to Be Really Happy?

I would say first it is important to define what is 'happy'.

Some people say 'if I just drove a lambroghini then I will be happy'... which I think that is a load of bumpikis.

Wealth and fame and all that... it does not bring true happiness.

In fact the most happy people are generally not as well off. There is reason for this.

My tips would be:

1. Get out of debt. Nothing like the stress of payments looming over your head can ruin a persons day.

2. Live simple. Have a simple plan in achieving something of value.

3. The people with the least cannot rely on material goods to make them happpy, mainly because they don't have a lot of material goods. So they rely on something else. What is that something else?

4. Your true happiness is in loving the people around you. Learn to appreciate and love and be grateful for the people around you.

If you train yourself to think in positives--especially about people...That guy has talent... that guy is smart... that girl is pretty... that girl can sing... and to think about the positives of other people this is a start.

You should not think in terms of comparing yourself to them. But rather being truly happy for those people...

You can try to learn about people... the more of a 'learning' attitude you take even from the most seemingly unimportant people it will make you happy.

If you make other people feel happy and important, and wanted and loved... in that process of doing that you will find yourself being more happy. You don't have to do something crazy or obvious, but even just conversations like 'oh wow, is that your baby! oh she is so cute!... wow you must be a great mom! look at her smile!' You cannot fake it though. Your appreciation for others must be real.

I can write a lot of other tips... but be simple, live simple, and love the people around you. Build them up, and in the process of building you will be building yourself too.

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3 Things about Hapiness

Happiness can be viewed as a three legged stool all needing to be the same length.

Relationships - I know several local guys, older and very rich. They have focused on their money and are very sad and lonely. They talk about their workers who never call and are also embarked on their own journey to amass "stuff." They can only talk about their money. What they have, the trips they take (alone) and the crap they have accumulated. They are real bores with no real friends. OTOH I know guys in the Philippine provinces who have very little ( a pig and a rice paddy), but they are surrounded by children, grandchildren and life long friends. Relationships with the spouse tend to be the most difficult to build and maintain - blending the wants needs and desires of two people takes a lot of give and take. But having caring healthy, giving relationships is the first step to being happy.

Career / Vocation - Making money is not a career. Being the boss is not a career. Career is a lifelong endeavor of doing that which you enjoy doing. It is very difficult when young to decide what to do with the rest of your life, but seeing as how you will spend so much time doing it, make sure it is something you have a genuine interest in. I had a friend in college. He started mowing grass to make extra money - we all thought he was crazy but he decided to stay at it. He loved being outdoors and decided to not live a life behind a desk. We wondered how he could ever get "rich" doing that. He runs his own landscaping company with a multi-million dollar turnover, is very secure, and fit, and loves his life.

Wealth - Wealth is the accumulation of security. When you are young you don't need much of it but as you get older it becomes more important. However wealth is not about what you can spend. Wealth is about what you save. I see time and time again people being pointed out as wealthy because they have the right car, the right golf clubs and go on the right vacations. Their kids go to the right schools and their wives have baubles hanging on their necks and arms. Then you find out there is no money in the bank and they are tens of thousands in debt. Wealth is simple - spend less than you earn and don't finance anything.

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